Certified EMDR Therapist in Holliston easily accessible from Metro West Boston.
Licensed in MA, FL, VT
Certified EMDR Therapist in Holliston easily accessible from Metro West Boston.
Licensed in MA, FL, VT
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A fundamental truth is that humans need to feel safe. Knowingly or unknowingly we develop thoughts, behaviors (habits) and emotional default patterns that our mind and body believe will keep us safe, and perhaps that was once true but now they are counterproductive. Finding out why these patterns originated is not just a matter of curiosity, it is essential. We often blame others, hormones, genes, work for a myriad of health problems. We don’t often ask our doctors or even ourselves if our health problems, behaviors, or emotional triggers come from past stressors or trauma.
Do you find yourself reaching for the Oreos as soon as your spouse brings up finances? Do you suddenly remember you have to clean out the fish tank or organize your sock drawer as soon as you sit down to work on a presentation or email your boss? Do you spend hours cursing the driver who cut in front of you? Yelling at your kids, or spouse or keeping it in and not saying a word? Maybe you overeat, can’t sleep, drink too much, or avoid social situations and you want to change but whenever you try your old habits resurface. You know what you need to do to change or feel better but it never seems to happen.
In today’s culture these avoidant, deflective habits may not raise eyebrows but they certainly don't make us feel well. Understand the mind/body safety connection and how it relates to everything from everyday life stressors to trauma and what you can do about it through EMDR. For more information check out What is EMDR?
Trauma is not only what happens to us, it is also what did not happen for us. Watch this video to see how I can help you process trauma and get a better idea of what to expect.
"Courtesy of EMDR International Association"

If you experience feelings of powerlessness, hopelessness, or feel as if you have no choice or control, EMDR can help you feel better and reclaim your life. You don't have to be hijacked back to the past. Control your moods and actions for both major life situations and seemingly benign, mildly annoying situations without intense and overwhelming emotions.
Are you yelling at your kids or your spouse?
Saying things to yourself you wouldn't utter to anyone else?
Feeling defeated and depleted?
There is an explanation and an answer.
The goal of EMDR therapy is to process traumatic or distressing life experiences that are causing problems now. Complete treatment of a single EMDR trauma target involves a three-pronged protocol to alleviate the symptoms and address the complete clinical picture. The three prongs include:

If I said to you, “Knock Knock” what would your response be? Would it be, “Who’s There?” If so, this is because your brain automatically links to a learned response without you even thinking about it. This is fine, but if your automatic brain is running your life, you may experience situations that are not fine for you. Intrusive and/or negative thoughts, beliefs or images, can lead you down a catastrophic trail. One second you didn’t turn in a work assignment and the next you imagine yourself being fired.
Don’t have time to go to therapy? Don’t want to get into” it”? Don’t even know what “it” is? What takes months or years in traditional therapy can take weeks with EMDR. With intensive EMDR sessions you can feel better in a matter of 2-3 sessions and not have to talk about what you are feelings or process emotions like you do in traditional therapies.

Is there a part of you that wants to change and a part of you that's nervous about it? Do you want to reduce stress, understand your moods, anger or frustrations? Are you ready to heal from trauma or distressing life events?
Come on in and let's figure it out together.
Opting for extended sessions (90 minutes) or intensives (2-3 hours) over traditional weekly sessions can be a game-changer.
Extended session and intensive is a better fit for you if you:
Through personalized treatment, we can work on symptom reduction, feeling in control of your life and move you towards a more joyful and fulfilling life.